YOUR CHILD DOESN’T NEED A COUNSELLOR…THEY NEED YOU.

Before you begin to discuss your child’s behaviour, check yourself on the following: 1. Do you listen to your child ever? Enough? 2. Are your conversations,    • constant questions to the child?    • unidirectional – only you are talking, advising, lecturing, instructing, directing. 3. Do you tell lies to other people (hide information or not speak the truth) in …

MOTHERHOOD – THE ART IN MY HE’ART’!

8 a.m 3rd October 2002 – Getting ready for a check up with the gynaecologist. I’m 5 days away from the EDD (expected date of delivery). Talking about delivering a baby here. My first one. 9.30 a.m. “Hope your bag is ready?” asked the doctor.”Go back home, get your things and get admitted. The baby is ready to arrive. If we wait …

WHY SPEAK TO A COUNSELLOR, WHEN YOU CAN USE YOUR PROBLEMS TO PUNISH EVERYONE AROUND YOU!

In life’s struggle to become Ben Franklin’s healthy-wealthy-and-wise (or was it Aristotle’s), I realized after much deliberation that it’s rather straightforward to become healthy, over wealthy or wise. In the absence of wisdom teeth, being wise is not a privilege I enjoy. My first ever visit to the dentist at age 39 and a quick x-ray revealed absolutely no signs of any …